Kelly’s friend and his mens cufflinks

As a woman, I know what accessories can do for clothing but not so much as for Kelly…  My hubby Kelly has a habit of dressing gently no matter what the occasion. He has a set of gold cufflinks with an embossment of a fish (I think a trout) on it. The set looks so glamorous and I plan on buying the same type to express my admiration for all that he does…but he hardly wears them!  Frustrating as it is, I have tried explaining that when we go out, I like to dress up.  I also like <i>him</i> to dress up…fully, tie, cufflinks, etc.  He’s getting the idea…but its not intuitive for him like it is for other guys out there.